Hot Sex! Gotta Have It!


male and female

Give thanks.

Today, I’ve been on the subject of sex. Not just any kind of sex. Hot sex. Sacred sex. Tantalizing sex. Yeah, sex. This word seems to invoke a sense of discomfort in some while invoking sensual arousal in others. In western society, many of us base our sexuality on religion, patriarchy, and misogyny. Add womb trauma, abuse, sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies (even in marriages and committed relationships) to the ingredient list and you have a recipe for disaster.

The wombologist in me cries out and desires to open up wombs all over the world so that women can take their rightful place in society. Walking in power, love, and strength. When I close my eyes, I see beautiful warrior queens, with high self-esteem, class, and distinction. Women who aren’t afraid to be sexually sensual, not worrying about what others say. A place where we embrace our beauty, flaunt it, and be appreciated for who we are. So, how do we get there? I suggest a simplistic three-prong plan.

1.) Know your womb’s purpose

2.) Heal from womb trauma, abuse, and toxicity

3.) Go within for the answers to life’s complicated questions

Let’s start with our womb’s purpose. The womb is the center of a woman’s body. The legs are below and the torso is above. Our spirituality flows from within our wombs in out to both directions. This is where we connect with men to create life. In that same sacred space, we connect with our divine selves and create witty inventions and new ideas. Not only do we create, we have the intuitive power to bring those things to life. From a metaphysical perspective, the energy meridians reveal the womb as a part of the sacral chakra. Emotional and sensual energies flow through this heavenly place where we experience desire, intimacy, pleasure, and intense feelings. When our womb’s are out of balance, we either block healing or continually search for it in all the wrong places. As a result, we may attract the wrong energy in our lives which can result in distractions that cause us to not walk in our destiny. When we know our womb’s purpose, we are balanced and can enjoy the sensuality of life without interference.

How do we heal from womb trauma? There are many paths and you have to go within to know what’s right for you. I suggest a womb detox that cleanses us from both a spiritual and physical perspective. The cleansing of your own issues and those inherited through generational curses. Once you are cleansed, you can have that HOT SEX I talked about at the beginning of this post.

Once you’ve detoxed your womb (AKA yoni), you can go within for answers to life’s complicated questions. The divine is within however, we’ve been trained to seek the answers from the outside. As a result, we tend to adopt solutions that aren’t specific to meet our needs and continue to walk around with toxic wombs. I suggest meditation as a spiritual practice to help you go within. Meditation will help you focus and clear your mind to hear from the divine creator within. No matter what religion you practice (or don’t), I challenge you to go within.

Over the next week, I encourage you to implement this three-prong plan in your life. Know your womb’s purpose. Heal from womb trauma, toxicity, and abuse. Then, go within for the answers for life’s complicated questions. I’d love to hear about your experiences so feel free to contact me. I’m sending a power surge of sensual energy to help you start your journey. And remember, not only will this set you free spiritually, physically, and emotionally, you’ll have the most amazing, HOT SEX you’ve ever experienced in your life. Ase’!

Love and light.

Author: Sherrice Sledge-Thomas

Sherrice Sledge-Thomas is the founder and Chief Visionary Officer at Herb Culture University. She's known as the Suburban Herbalista because her place of residence along with her life experiences have shaped her unique brand of herbalism. Sherrice's herbal studies are rooted in experiences with her "rootworking" grandmother and a host of wise women in her community. To compliment her grassroots herbalist education, she earned a Health Coaching certification from the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. She also holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Liberal Arts with a focus on Women's Studies from The Ohio State University and a Master of Business Administration from Franklin University with a focus on Organizational Leadership and Management. Over the years, she's obtained a variety of certifications in the learning, leadership development, and change management space to compliment her holistic health work. This is the reason many of her certification programs and workshops incorporate elements of strategic planning and execution. Sherrice is the mother of three handsome young men. She enjoys meditation, yoga, and free-spirited dancing.

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